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Children's Behaviour Patterns

Metaphorical associative cards · 80 cards
Children's Behaviour Patterns

About the deck

A deck about how a child acts, and about behaviour being a choice rather than a verdict on their character.

The deck holds 80 metaphorical associative cards with common styles of children’s behaviour: 40 positive and 40 negative.

Some patterns help a child live and come to agreement, others wreck their relationships and keep them from growing. It matters to notice this in time, before a style becomes the only way they know how to react.

Through the cards a child sees themselves from the outside and understands how they act in different situations, and a professional helps them choose and settle into different behaviour.

The deck also suits work with grown-ups on the inner child, when a childhood pattern of behaviour keeps running in grown-up life.

The deck can be used as a diagnostic, clarifying, deepening, resourcing and supporting tool in counseling, therapy and psychological transformation games. It works within the “Children's World” series, on its own, and as a deepening tool in the game of the same name.

Who it is for: child and family psychologists, psychotherapists, art therapists, school psychologists, consultants, teachers, facilitators of children’s groups, and grown-ups working on the inner child.

With the “Children's Behaviour Patterns” deck you can

Questions to ask the deck

Work starts from these questions. Choose one, the one that speaks to you more strongly than the rest, and work with it, because only one style is taken apart well in a single meeting.

  1. How do I behave in this situation?
  2. Which behaviour do I show most often?
  3. What do I need to change in my behaviour?
  4. Which quality should I work on first?
  5. Which style of behaviour will become a resource for me?
  6. What do I do well and can lean on?
  7. What do I need to grow in myself?
  8. What will help me reach what I want?
  9. How do I improve my relationships and what should I pay attention to?
  10. What in myself do I not yet accept?
  11. How do I behave when I am hurt?
  12. What do I do when I am scared or awkward?

Print Format

$27

80 cards, a QR code to the deck guide with ten techniques, colour box · Coated 350gsm, matte lamination

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Digital Version

$10

Full access on the “Keys to yourself” platform. The deck guide with ten techniques is included

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The whole series

“Children's World” is 8 decks that work as a single system: fears and complexes, behaviour patterns, habits, beliefs, feelings, emotions and mood, abilities and teen motivation.

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